Selfish

[Noirenex]

My first is in name, but not in your shelf,
My second a sound, made in surprise,
My third is my eye and my self,
My fourth is a pirates call, made to chastise,
My fifth waits in caves, within an elf,
My sixth is my first, a word to the wise,
My seventh is with her, not him,
And my last is mysterious, used on a whim.

What Am I?

[Noirenex]

A clue?
<span style="background-color: #FFFF00; color: #FFFF00; font-weight: bold">My first five spell darkness in another land and my last three begin the core of latin</span hide>

[HansV]

<span style="background-color: #FFFF00; color: #FFFF00; font-weight: bold">It's your Lounge username</span hide>

[Noirenex]

Thank you Hans, well done